Who looks more comfortable in this photo? Me or Jay? Correct. Perhaps his stiffness is the result of my touching him in broad daylight. Or his general discomfort in front of the camera? Or that fact that we were climbing the path up, up, up to the Bom Jesus do Monte shrine in Braga, the most religious city in Portugal? We rarely get a photo of the two of us together, so when the opportunity arose, I placed the camera on a wall, adjusted the finicky self-timer and, well, smiled.